Dare to be you: Live Life without Verdict
Oscar Wilde once said, "Be yourself; everybody else is taken". He was at that, time proclaiming what is now the edict, that our epoch lives by. Being yourself is difficult especially in a place where everyone offers their own verdict and thoughts on how you dress, look and behave. You can never be too good or too bad. There are times that no matter what you do you are never good enough and people, who don't even know you will pass the verdict. Nevertheless, the only thing that benefits, in the long run, is the fact that being yourself. Times are gone, when what other thought affected everyone. This era is all about being who you are, your own individual.
A concept of verdict life has just emerged. A lifestyle where what other thinks do not matter; their thought, verdict and judgments are just water off the back. However, how would you ever know who you are? Throughout our life, our likes, dislikes and preferences change with each phase of our life, the kind of person we are, remains constant. There is no book or a checklist with which we can just turn into the individual we are, but there are ways to discover whom we are. It is a place where no verdict ever reaches, a place where we can dare to be us.
Here is how you can get to know yourself and take first step in direction of being yourself:
Discover yourself: First step is to discover you. Know who you are and as you start understanding yourself, you'll slowly peel layers and get to discover yourself. Who you are, also depends upon what you like. Do you like eccentric, quirky stuff or you go for what is trending? Do you have an eclectic taste or do you prefer what people around you like. It is these things, which will help you discover yourself easily.
Appreciate yourself: To be your own person, learn to appreciate yourself. Love yourself before you ask someone else to like you. People will pass their verdicts on you no matter what you do. Learn to appreciate yourself and your life and you'll see that their thoughts and verdicts don't matter anymore to you.
Speak out: No one except you will speak out for you, so learn to speak your mind. Express yourself, if not through words, then by the way of your clothes and look. Be unique.
A life without the verdict, without judgments. Express yourself with rare things that represent your persona. Dare to be. Don't try to fit in. There is only one you.
Discover yourself: First step is to discover you. Know who you are and as you start understanding yourself, you'll slowly peel layers and get to discover yourself. Who you are, also depends upon what you like. Do you like eccentric, quirky stuff or you go for what is trending? Do you have an eclectic taste or do you prefer what people around you like. It is these things, which will help you discover yourself easily.
Appreciate yourself: To be your own person, learn to appreciate yourself. Love yourself before you ask someone else to like you. People will pass their verdicts on you no matter what you do. Learn to appreciate yourself and your life and you'll see that their thoughts and verdicts don't matter anymore to you.
Speak out: No one except you will speak out for you, so learn to speak your mind. Express yourself, if not through words, then by the way of your clothes and look. Be unique.
A life without the verdict, without judgments. Express yourself with rare things that represent your persona. Dare to be. Don't try to fit in. There is only one you.
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Wilham Grey
Wilham Grey is marketing executive at verdict. With aim of promoting alternative lifestyle, verdict. proclaims its love to be different and...
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